Poor women are hanged die the death of graduate student self-esteem

 Poor women are hanged die the death of graduate student's self-esteem
China Chinese Commercial News reporter Pan Jingwen / Figure
life deadlock
two towels, a knot, the end of a life just that simple. Her life despite the young, but also vulnerable predicament.
2009  11 26, Shanghai Maritime University, Yang Yuanyuan, 30-year-old female graduate student in the dormitory Ziyishenwang, his family said her death is a cumulative process of psychological stress. some commenters said that she fundamentally not with the mother of the graduate school. People Lament apart, but also food for thought, what is the make of a difficult life for many years to survive the people who choose to give up life in an instant?
relatives shot brand, citing the school fault < br> She diligently hh
childhood sensible, frugal, hardworking, studious, a former group secretary at the university, was Grade A B scholarships, to help the mother to share the burden of life is stronger hh

compared her aging and, to do too many jobs, consciously provoked family girders for the care of mothers with mothers graduate, worked with his mother slept on hard floors, renting sensitive hh

doing things her low-key, self-esteem high, and never seek help, rarely fellow students, some self-enclosed, in the state of helplessness and despair, her childish hh

depressed sigh had no stable income Teachers select professional, guilt did not make the mother a better life. the lack of psychological counseling, vulnerable external stimulus, spur of the moment
, Wang Jianhua sitting in the bathroom wash basin, the side shows the scene at that time, one side says look Qi Huang, Yang height washbasin quarters lower than here, so she may be even more painful.
as Yang's uncle, he said, smart obedient young and naive, and always doing chores
1979 年 11 3, Yang was born in Yichang City, Hubei Province, a worker's family. In her 6 years ago, home is always filled with friendly and peaceful atmosphere, until her father died suddenly, everything came to a standstill.
The death of Yang Yuanyuan, Wang Jianhua said it might have not figured out life, because in his impression, that is a very strong, motivated and intelligent children. jaundice, hepatitis, rescue is not timely, the results of thirties died. death, had a happy family suddenly collapsed. sight Ruiling memories, Yuan Yuan are more obedient child, as is the eldest daughter, is also very sensible, school all right, always helping with the housework. and Wang Jianhua said a child in the mountains, niece is very lively, naughty, school homework is not bad. Although the sister of a man pulling two children is not easy, but it did not deprive the poor family of two children the joy of a teenager.
in the existing a few pictures, either sitting on the creek Yuan Yuan stone, or Xiaohe and uncle grabbed the snake, are clearly delivered the girl she enjoyed during the period of joy, happiness might disappear in the blink of an eye later, she still has to face the constraints of the family, but after all, is always happy to give people hope and inspiration.

hard efforts to reduce the burden of mothers who obtain graduate of Beijing University, there is no money to give up because as time
over 1998, due to business reasons, look for the inner Ruiling back procedures. This year, Yuan Yuan successfully admitted to the Wuhan University School of Business Economics. Ruiling look at the inside back pay only 215 yuan a month, but fortunately Yuan Yuan the university can apply for student loans, call money with their own point of odd jobs for his son to study in high school, life was still dealing with the past. to the year 2000, the son of Yang Shunshun is also admitted to Wuhan University, the Wang Rui Ling moved to Wuhan University, and Yuan Yuan to live together.
7 people, a bed two feet two inches wide, squeezed my daughter for a month, then the school know, I live to the school a duty room, living for a long time. lived when the hostel every day cleaning up, during the day to sell at school spiced corned egg, tofu, lotus root or something, son of the hostel only 4 people, local large, by noon, afternoon, and I In his quarters to two children to cook. case, it acquiesced. Later, she began selling the wine, small articles of daily, one can earn twenty dollars a day, basically solved the two children in college a lot of money in the consumer cost of living. and in this period , Yuan Yuan is also helping the mother was busy doing this, but part-time tutor. University of 4 years, serving as a branch secretary of her, due to outstanding performance, but also has won the Class A and B school scholarships. can be said that Yuan Yuan is hard work with her to win for themselves the right to life, for the mother to reduce the burden on the shoulders.
as studious, 2002 mm is Yuan Yuan graduated that year, she was admitted to Peking University law graduate, but In the absence of money, this valuable opportunity to finally give up .2004, where the plants look Ruiling be relocated to Yichang City, 35,000 yuan of resettlement costs, and stumped the family, and finally, the house originally looking Ruiling demolished. helpless, the family had rented out until September 12 this year, Yuan Yuan to Shanghai Maritime University graduate, was moved over the check-out.
want to change the situation of struggling to take care of the elderly consider
She decided to take his mother along with graduate
2002, the Yuan Yuan graduated from Wuhan University.'s first job after graduation, is the modern English language training center in Wuhan, any teacher training.
a full two years, Yuan element in this training center as an English teacher, to August 2004, due to salary reasons, she abandoned her job. when she was less than 1,000 yuan of wages, which in Wuhan, is a lower salary. Then, in the year September, she went to Wuhan Taikang Life Insurance Company as an account representative, but the dry year, and resigned. The resignation, Wang Rui Ling Yuan Yuan explanation is not in the least to customers, work does not make money.
two experience of failures, so that Yuan Yuan depressed for a long time, and finally in 2007, she and six former students linked to an emotional run from the magazine, and as investment, Yuan Yuan, she saved to their hard cast into the thousands of dollars. due to lack of media experience and to determine accurately the market, after the initial passion of entrepreneurship, the founder of the magazine has died down.
Thereafter, Yuan Yuan determined to change the situation In 2009 Kaoyan 4 26, through hard tutorial, she finally admitted to Shanghai Maritime University graduate in international law. excitement, she came home with the mother hugged.
2004, the Yuan Yuan's brother obtain Peking University Ph.D. study, she will live with the mother, as mothers grow older, Yuan Yuan to consciously assume the home of all. taking into account the 58 year old mother has no one to take care of, given the large force suffered a decided to graduate school together with his mother. to her move, some analysts believe that graduate school is only two years, Yuan Yuan, the mother of to school, just a transition, because my brother graduated the following year will be able to work, to the time the mother Yang can be connected to the past to take care of his younger brother.
but came to Shanghai after all this is not imagined it to be smooth.
Wang Rui Ling said she was admitted to the Shanghai Maritime University, Building 24, 506 quarters, with the same care girls get along well, she went out early in the morning wandering around the campus, sometimes to the lake sit, sometimes sitting courtside knit, does not prevent the who. Later, this female-stay informed with four graduate students admitted to the civil service is not due to read, a few single rooms empty, they intend to move to a front of 514 dorm.
the cleaning up, she said, very dirty, the room after the past, no one pick up. also .
cold mother and daughter day rental housing rent
sleep on hard floors, rough room was cold at night with his mother Yang
wake up to go to school, the school learned of Yang gave a number of reminders, she was also on the counselor Wu Zhiyi's proposal, wrote a letter to the school apply to the schools in view of their family's November 26, also in the Yang into the school more than two months after her hanging in the dormitory bathroom.
for her daughter's death, Wang Rui Ling said, this is because the school forced her to leave her daughter constantly quarters led to the child due to mental extremely low. In this regard, the school denied this. So, Yang few days before his death, what was it? what is taking exception to her sudden tragic way to end life? We began looking for an apartment in mid-November, a cold day in, and very remote place, the house easy to find, November 20 evening, a female dorm staff on duty to come to a very powerful way of Yang said, tomorrow at 8 am, you want your mother's stuff out, never came. Before looking Ruiling left the hostel, the day she was far from the school to spend 100 yuan Double Kong hotels lodged; 22, she went to school to sit the night cinema mm cinema is actually what she said school hall, used to go because she said, a staff member with the care of more familiar, it was after 11 pm, was allowed to sit in there all night, although in the hall inside, but still cold. to the 23rd evening, the house finally rented to, but it is rough room, nothing there that night to the mother and daughter put the blanket spread on the floor, sleep at night, it was Yang, wake up. Hearing her daughter scream live in dormitory to go to school, she advised her daughter, the results of the two who did not fall asleep at night, .24, though still very cold, Yang was with my mother sleeping in a rented room on the floor on.
in 21 to 25 5 days, remove the two days, week one week two yuan yuan has classes, but did not go on, hope Ruiling advised her daughter to school, her daughter says, . Wednesday, Yuan Yuan is no class, she and her mother in the school cafeteria to buy some bread and pickles, to return rented room to eat. Wang Rui Ling recalled that Yang had told her was sorry did not apply for the Teacher Training college, if reported the normal major, high wages and stable now. As Yang said repeatedly guilty mother did not make a better life, and I'm sorry mother, years of hard work, these words seem to look Ruiling emotional feeling some unusual daughter.
The Gengrang look Ruiling concern is that one day even told her about Yuan Yuan, a teacher at the training center when the third-year class has a 15-year-old female student of suicide, when her daughter said, money, how committed suicide. 25, Yang is the day before his death, the weather was exceptionally good. the mother and daughter early on from the ground up, because the room is too cold, they will be chatting away to school.
in school dormitories, mother and daughter spent a long time, about past events, Yuan Yuan Speaking regretted not test again the words of Teachers. In the afternoon, mother and daughter near the third quarters of the school cafeteria after dinner, then back to the dormitory with bath, Yuan Element first wash, and then to rush to participate in the program class rehearsal, and before leaving she told her mother must be fast, to catch the 20:00 to leave the hostels and other dorm members do not come back to catch people out.
time, Wang Rui Ling asked her if she waited for her rehearsal with the back end rental housing, Yuan Yuan said not to go. hope Ruiling after bathing, washing clothes to dry her up, then leave the hostel. to 10 pm, Wang Rui Ling Yuan Yuan's phone rang with their classmates on the phone. the phone, still in rehearsal, said Yuan Yuan, so, rest assured, she returned to the rental.
the case for the night, Yuan Yuan's brother Yang Shunshun said that night they sent a text message each other, talking about the mother's residence, he did not feel any abnormal sister. hope Ruiling did not think his daughter will be his farewell in the form of tragedy.
later, the Shanghai Maritime University of propaganda minister Peng Dong Chan told reporters that the Yang's death, the school also was very saddened and send someone to appease the Young Mother. yesterday, family members said the original agreement 14 with leaders of the school interviews to address the aftermath, but yesterday, leaders of the school did not appearance, but unfortunately, the original funeral plans after the cremation difficult to complete. At present, Yang's body was lying in Nanhui District Hospital, family members can only continue to wait for the funeral processing.
why she chose decisively hanging
30-year-old mother of shame not to enjoy a better life, the suspect can not afford to make her suddenly
. He recalled that although all these years my sister encountered some setbacks, but the mental state has been good, siblings still in the phone recently to discuss where the New Year off. sister, they rent a big house, He can come and who could even think of this sudden tragedy.
left, far away, go out to buy me back. to get rid of death. combat, coupled with driving the mother to leave the dorm staff Lvcisanfan sister hostel, but also gave my sister the trauma caused by the heart. sure looked sad, sad, especially thinking about my sister 30 years old may not himself make the mother a better life, and even the idea of the mother would be sorry, br> reporter in the school learned that Yang's life is very thrifty, live frugally, she bought the phone in April of this year, when the top-50 dollars, until she died, calls have not yet exhausted. classmate, said Yang Yuanyuan relatively inanimate , dealing with people was relatively low key. At school, she and her mother together basically.
counselor Wu Zhiyi that Yang is the most prominent feature of hard work, love reading. In the application, the family poverty did not directly say, but that > Another teacher said the school, because without a stable job over the years, and even a better income, Yang apt sense of loss, the face of the mother, her loss and very easy to spread, her so-called change the fate of the professor pointed out that if Yang excluded the possibility of depression, her hanging factors should be integrated systems, such as in a helpless state of despair and so on, because a man desperate, they would lose the courage to live, and produce despair, usually has a relationship with his own personal knowledge, as one thing, a frustration, and frustration is often not the thing itself, how serious is that some people due to cognitive limitations, see too serious. There is a personality, such as the lack of fatherly love a child, the general sense of security that girls with low, plus the environment within a single, good at communication, which leads to psychological problems in the face of a lack of support and assistance, often as a result of external stimuli produced short moment ;.
users voice
a death sentence for a female graduate student who has Rating
considered a death sentence for the Yang Yuanyuan, the following factors:
Yuan Yuan, Wuhan University diploma deduction should be the first Yuan-Yuan did not find a good job, and working has been an important reason to do with it.
Yuan Yuan education system has done an English teacher after graduating, sold insurance, played odd jobs. to my surprise, the prestige of a large force, Yuan Yuan Wuhan, the way the job would be so bitter. In addition to their own quality problems, an important reason may be the system itself.
little social indifference (mean sea large support staff) of the harsh, arrogant elite (money do not come to school ), if management is not rough rough.
Yuan Yuan yourself that you too good, so you're carrying too much responsibility; you are too stubborn, so no matter how tough you are dead carry; you're too naive, so you choose full-time with Mother graduate; your life so bitter, life is not even a man for you to share, whether father, boyfriend, brother.
Abstract Citation
Gaofendineng Bo Yang harm?
tragedy, always stop thinking about the human tragedy brought. someone hanging Yang Yuanyuan, China's education system in the event of failure of proof, and even classified as Gaofendineng educated, high score, low score high and low score low, while Yang is Gaofendineng a class.
This is the most normal education system, culture results, a large number of such education and training out of the total of such children will understand sooner or later one in the mystery, most of them also can get out, leaving the school trained in social life after the real abilities. really does not come out, and only a very few, and Yang is one of the prominent representatives. her misfortune is that on the one hand, she piously hopes that the education system; another , the variety of adverse conditions and are concentrated in just her body. She poor family, the family can not give her life support, but needs support in her life. She is the biggest misunderstanding, she thought that test scores are everything. and so she finally recognized this point, it was too late, she left with only despair. Comprehensive